Hi there! So I guess there’s this feeling you get whenever you want to toast a girl for the first time especially one from Nigeria. It’s normal to feel sort of scared or forget what you intend to say to a girl for the first time.
When we talk about toasting a girl, what does the term toast mean? To toast a means to woo a girl or to approach a girl for a romantic relationship.
The reason for this article is to educate people on how to toast a girl for the first time whether she’s your long-time crush or someone you just met.
Nigerian girls have this mindset of always waiting upon the guys to make the first move. They like you, but for them to walk up to you and express how they feel is a very big problem.
1. Be straightforward with what you want.
You need to know what you want from her, whether is a long-term relationship or just a hookup relationship that won’t last. Most guys don’t know what they want from a pretty girl. The moment they open their mouth they won’t know when they’ll begin talking out of line.
Do you like her and want her to be your girlfriend or not, this is what you should think about thoroughly before approaching her. You also need to look at her personality whether or not she is in for a one-night stand or she needs a man who will be there for her.
2. Don’t beat around the bush, tell her how you feel.
How did you two meet? Was it online or did you meet at a bus station? You can ask her to go on a date with you or have lunch with you. If she agrees, be a gentleman and take things slow. After eating you can open up to her about your feelings and how you feel about her.
You can simply say; Uhm Jennifer, you look so beautiful I must confess. So let me go straight to the point okay. From the very first day I set my eyes on you, the thoughts of you have just clouded my mind and I can’t think straight anymore. I like you a lot and I want to be the first person to text you in the morning and the last to send you good night kisses before you go to bed.
I want you in my life because you bring sunshine and smiles to me. Will you be my girlfriend?
3. Befriend her first before you toast her.
Before you toast a girl in Nigeria, try to get to know her first it’s very important. You can simply tell her you like her and want to be just friends for now so that you two can get to know each other better.
That way you get to know what she likes and dislikes before you mess things up.
4. You need to be financially stable.
By this I mean you have a greater chance of winning her heart even before you say anything.
Most Nigerian girls are driven by the sight or feel of money. If she notices you spend a lot, you won’t need to break a sweat over what to say when toasting her.
Since you have money, ask her to go out with you she will. Buy her ice cream and spend time together talking about things that are related to the present and future.
Take cute pictures and videos, you can go swimming too. If she doesn’t know how to swim you can suggest teaching her. All these are part of the tactics to apply when you want to toast a girl in Nigeria for the first time.
You can also use the pictures you took together as your DP on social media. This will make her know you have feelings for her.