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Signs she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you

Signs to know she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you

What are the signs to notice if she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you?

Relationships these days have become something else, cheating and lies have become the order of the day. But in between all of these things, you are sure to find true love.

In today’s episode of our weekly blogs, we’re going to be looking at some few signs to know if your partner is not interested in you anymore.

For your partner, whether boyfriend or girlfriend, to confess they love you isn’t enough to keep the relationship.

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He or she can express themselves and still run into the arms of another person. Another thing you need to know is that the way you treat your partner plays a vital role in the growth of your relationship.

If you neglect how your partner feels, trust me you won’t be surprised to find out they are finding solace in the least person you never expected.

What really are the signs she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you?  Let . explain something to you!

Relationship like I will always advise is not a do or die affair. If your work won’t permit you to spend time with your partner more often, find a way to convey the message. Don’t just assume he or she will understand.

Human psychology works in mysterious ways that baffle even the most knowledgeable being on Earth.

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Some of the little things you do can make someone love you like nothing else in the world matters. And you can still do things you assume to be for the good of others and they lose interest in you.

5 Signs she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

1. She’s always finding excuses when you want her attention.

This is a major sign to notice when a person or girl is no longer interested in you anymore. You realize all manner of excuses begin to show up. Sometimes you begin to question yourself, “where is the girl you fell in love with”.

Generally when a person loves you, they don’t need to say a word because their actions clearly say it all. Guys have this mindset too, for instance a huge percent of guys begin to lose interest in a girl after intimacy.

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This also includes the girls; when you two began the relationship you were so inseparable. But look at her now, probably because you couldn’t meet up to her financial expectations and another guy is funding her needs she begins to find different excuses.

2. She tells you you’re too good for her and you deserve someone better.

Most of these girls who have a social media lifestyle influence them are in this category. What do we really want in a relationship? Is it to find that one person that treats us good?

One of the reasons I believe a girl will boldly tell you, you’re too good for her and you deserve someone better is if she’s cheating on you with someone else.

Remember, the moment she tells you, you deserve someone better just to know that she doesn’t want to be in that relationship with you.

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3. She starts expressing herself in clichés.

The third signs she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you is that she begins to speak in clichés. You hear words like—

“What if we’re not meant to be”? What if the person you will end up marrying is not me?

“If it happens your family doesn’t approve of me what next?”

“Should I start aging will your love fade away?”

All this pointless conversation that doesn’t mean well for the both of you begins to becomes an everyday topic for her.

Although looking from her past relationships and encounters with different people, those could be her fears and nightmare. If it is, assure her that the future holds great things for you two. There’s no perfect human being on Earth nor is there any perfect relationship.

4. She gives you conditions and tasks for her to accept to date you.

I am just going to be plain with you guys! If you’re going into a relationship or should I call it a situationship where the girls give you conditions please don’t get f00led.

I have had some personal experiences but I will share one with you. In the early part of 2022, I met a girl who really caught my attention, I just couldn’t help but talk to her.

It took a while before she began to come around and we talked and laughed together. I told her how I felt and I wanted to be more than friends with her.

She told me she enjoyed my company but couldn’t be in a relationship with me. I inquired as to what the problem was and she told me If I really wanted to date her then I would have to do something for her.

As someone that I was in love with, I obliged to help her with whatever she wanted. After all, she will be my girlfriend. Guess what she requested? She asked me to help her abort the pregnancy she was carrying. Just like you, I was caught in between the devil and the deep blue Sea. I had no idea she was pregnant for someone else. My happiness was that she didn’t make it look like it was mine.

Somehow I knew she was never in love with me. She just wanted me to help her, that’s all. Most girls are manipulative, all they want is their own benefit. Be wise and guided!!

5. She ignores you and talks to you whenever she feels like it.

This is another sign you’ll notice in a girl that doesn’t want to have a relationship with you. There’s no lie or whatsoever here, you must have had a crush on someone and at some point decide to approach them

If she doesn’t like you, she will keep ignoring your chat or discussion.

In a more plain language, you’d say she’s snubbing you. She snubs you because you’re not in the league of guys she imagines being with.

Sometimes because you like her, you go all the way to do what will please her or get her attention. Trust me, deep down she might still not like you but just what you have to offer.

If a girl doesn’t love you for who you are, not minding your financial status, or social status please it’s not worth the effort.

What I always tell people is that “You don’t need to break a sweat in the name of looking for love”. At the right time the right person will locate you.

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